Aug. 5, 2025

Carrying the Tiger: A Love Story in the Face of Terminal Illness- Tony Stewart | EP 441

Send me a Text Message- please include your contact information so I can respond What does it mean to love someone through the end of their life? How do we hold joy and heartbreak at the same time? In this profoundly moving episode of Grief 2 Growth, host Brian D. Smith speaks with Tony Stewart, author of Carrying the Tiger: Living with Cancer, Dying with Grace, Finding Joy While Grieving. Tony shares the intimate journey he and his wife Lynn traveled after her diagnosis with incurable lung c...

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What does it mean to love someone through the end of their life? How do we hold joy and heartbreak at the same time?

In this profoundly moving episode of Grief 2 Growth, host Brian D. Smith speaks with Tony Stewart, author of Carrying the Tiger: Living with Cancer, Dying with Grace, Finding Joy While Grieving. Tony shares the intimate journey he and his wife Lynn traveled after her diagnosis with incurable lung cancer.

Together, they navigated six years of life lived fully in the shadow of death—a journey filled with courage, creativity, and deep connection.

This episode will move your heart, shift your perspective on illness and loss, and help you see grief as something that can deepen our capacity for love.

💡 What You’ll Learn:

  • How a Tai Chi metaphor helped inspire the title Carrying the Tiger 🐅
  • What it’s really like to care for a partner with terminal illness 💔
  • Why Tony says those final years were the most beautiful of their relationship
  • The emotional impact on caregivers—grief, guilt, and growth 💬
  • How Tony gave himself permission to love again while holding Lynn in his heart 💞

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🧠 Favorite Quotes

"I thought I had been buried. But maybe, like a seed, I’d been planted."
 — Brian D. Smith“We said ‘I love you’ more in one night than in 30 years of marriage.”
 — Tony S

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Tony Stewart

Tony Stewart is the author of the memoir "Carrying the Tiger: Living with Cancer, Dying with Grace, Finding Joy while Grieving."

Tony has made award-winning films for colleges and universities, written software that received rave reviews, designed a grants-management application that was used by three of the five largest charities in the world, and led the development of an international standard, for which he spoke at conferences across Europe and North America.

Tony and his late wife Lynn Kotula, a painter, traveled extensively in India and Southeast Asia, staying in small hotels off the beaten track and eating delicious food with their fingers when cutlery wasn’t available. Carrying the Tiger is his first book.