What if the pain you’ve carried for decades could become the very thing that sets you free? 💔➡️💫
In this profoundly moving episode of Grief 2 Growth, Brian D. Smith sits down with author, speaker, and storytelling strategist Kennerly Clay—whose memoir Letters from East of Nowhere explores the tangled roots of addiction, abandonment, and the radical healing power of forgiveness.
👨👧 Through decades of handwritten letters from her father—an alcoholic, a dreamer, a deeply human man—Kennerly uncovers a narrative she never knew existed. What begins as an effort to organize old correspondence becomes a soul-deep reckoning with grief, identity, and the possibility of understanding those who’ve hurt us most.
✨ In this episode, you’ll discover:
Why forgiveness is a gift you give yourself first 💝
How letters preserved a father-daughter bond across decades and distance 📝
The emotional impact of discovering love that was always there—but hidden
How Kennerly’s story helps us see the unseen wounds we all carry
Whether you’re navigating your own complicated family legacy or struggling to forgive the unforgivable, this episode will move you—and may even change how you see your past.
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00:00 🌱 What If You’re Not Buried, But Planted?
Brian opens with a transformative metaphor about growth through grief and challenges.
00:45 🎧 Welcome from Brian D. Smith
Brian introduces himself and the mission of the podcast: finding meaning in grief, trauma, and transformation.
01:05 📚 Meet Kennerly Clay
Introducing today’s guest—author and storytelling strategist Kennerly Clay—who turned pain into purpose.
02:10 😂 Healing Through Humor and Hope
Despite the pain, Kennerly’s story is filled with levity, resilience, and redemption.
02:36 📝 Writing as a Lifeline
Brian and Kennerly explore how writing helped her make sense of her past and reframe it into healing.
03:25 🧠 Forgiveness as Superpower
Kennerly reflects on the power of forgiving others—and herself.
04:17 ⛓️ Embracing the Past
How facing, not fleeing, from her story brought Kennerly freedom and peace.
05:35 💬 Start of the Interview with Kennerly
Kennerly responds to Brian’s heartfelt introduction and shares what resonated.
06:20 🚛 Life with an Absent Father
Kennerly begins to share her experience of growing up with a truck-driving father who was rarely home.
08:35 🍺 Addiction and Unmet Expectations
How broken promises and alcohol shaped her childhood and emotional world.
13:30 🧍 Becoming an Alcoholic Herself
She opens up about her own journey into addiction and early sobriety.
14:45 💬 The Courageous Conversation at 21
Kennerly recounts the life-changing moment when she told her father what it was like being his child.
16:55 🧊 His Unexpected Response
Kennerly reads a passage about her father’s reaction—how he didn’t respond the way she hoped.
21:05 🧘♀️ Accepting Him As He Was
Kennerly shares how she made peace with her father’s inability to change—and chose to stay connected anyway.
22:45 ✍️ Letter Writing Through the Years
Kennerly explains how letters sustained their relationship even as her father declined.
26:00 📦 Rediscovering the Letters
Her mother’s surprise gift: a treasure trove of letters from decades past that reframed everything.
29:30 🧒 A Child’s Hidden Hurt
A letter from age five unlocks long-suppressed pain—and a powerful new layer of forgiveness.
34:00 💔 Mourning What Never Was
Kennerly realizes what she missed: a father’s love she never fully knew was there.
38:00 🧩 Putting the Puzzle Together
How her father’s letters, her memories, and family interviews became a complete portrait.
41:00 🎙️ Audio Memoir Preview
Kennerly discusses her groundbreaking new project: an audio series using AI to recreate her father’s voice.
43:00 🌟 Final Reflections & Key Takeaways
Brian and Kennerly reflect on forgiveness, compassion, and the freedom of telling your truth.
