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Brian D. Smith

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Grief Guide | Life Coach | Consultant

Brian Smith is a certified life coach, a grief guide, and a small business consultant. Brian's mission is to help others by sharing lessons he has learned from decades of experience and study.

Brian became well acquainted with grief in 2015 after the sudden passing of his fifteen-year-old daughter Shayna. After Shayna's passing, Brian felt his life was over. He had to learn to survive for the sake of his wife, Tywana, and their daughter, Kayla. Brian has studied the nature of life and death and how to progress through grief.

In his grief work, Brian provides a safe space where you can safely share what you are experiencing. Brian shares techniques that he discovered and developed after his devastating loss. Perhaps most importantly, he can help you understand that death is not goodbye and that your relationship with your loved one can continue. His understanding is not a religious-based belief, but a position arrived at based on reason and evidence.

Shortly after Shayna transitioned, Brian discovered Helping Parents Heal, a non-profit peer-to-peer support group for parents of children who have passed. Brian volunteers with Helping Parents Heal and is a leader of the Helping Parents Heal Online group. Brian has worked with hundreds of parents who have lost children. Brian is a member of the Board for Helping Parents Heal. He volunteers for the SoulPhone foundation.

Brian is on the board of the SoulPhone Foundation and Helping Parents Heal. Brian is the author of "Grief 2 Growth: Planted. Not Buried." He is the host of the Grief 2 Growth podcast. You can find Brian at www.grief2growth.com.

πŸ”’ When I Think Of Home
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Feb. 22, 2023

πŸ”’ When I Think Of Home

Subscriber-only episode Send me a Text Message I prepared this talk to give on Sandra Champlain's Sunday Gathering. I've revised it just a bit and recorded it for you, my podcast friends. If you haven't heard it (or if you have) check out Stephanie Mills' Home. It's one of the inspirations for this talk. Whenever I'm homesick, I put it on. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cnKQN7TF4hQ Thanks for your support. Stay tuned for more exciting stuff next year. Check out my Substack https://grief2growth....
πŸ”’ Today I Said No- Confession of A People Pleaser
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Feb. 16, 2023

πŸ”’ Today I Said No- Confession of A People Pleaser

Subscriber-only episode Send me a Text Message Today, I was proud of myself. I did something that's not been easy for me to do. Today, I said "No." Thanks for your support. Stay tuned for more exciting stuff next year. Check out my Substack https://grief2growth.substack.com πŸ§‘πŸΏβ€πŸ€β€πŸ§‘πŸ» Join Facebook Group - Get Support and Education πŸ‘› Subscribe to Grief 2 Growth Premium (bonus episodes) πŸ“° Get A Free Gift πŸ“… Book A Complimentary Discovery Call πŸ“ˆ Leave A Review Thanks so much for your support
The SHOCKING Truth About Punishment in the Afterlife: What NDEs Tell Us!
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April 11, 2022

The SHOCKING Truth About Punishment in the Afterlife: What NDEs Tell Us!

Send me a Text Message You guys keep asking tough questions. This one revolves around punishment in the afterlife. It seems a lot of people are upset that there might not be punishment after we die. Is that what the NDE tells us? Not exactly. Listen for more. Thanks for your support. Stay tuned for more exciting stuff next year. Check out my Substack https://grief2growth.substack.com Support the show πŸ§‘πŸΏβ€πŸ€β€πŸ§‘πŸ» Join Facebook Group - Get Support and Education πŸ‘› Subscribe to Grief 2 Growth Premium (b...
Looking Through Rose Colored Glasses?
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Feb. 16, 2022

Looking Through Rose Colored Glasses?

Send me a Text Message After my Bengals made an improbable and incredible run to the Super Bowl, our city was left with a choice as to how we view our future. I realize that in this choice, there's a life lesson. Joe Burrow literally wears rose-colored glasses. Is this a good thing or a bad thing? Thanks for your support. Stay tuned for more exciting stuff next year. Check out my Substack https://grief2growth.substack.com Support the show πŸ§‘πŸΏβ€πŸ€β€πŸ§‘πŸ» Join Facebook Group - Get Support and Education πŸ‘›...
Curing The Disease To Please
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Jan. 24, 2022

Curing The Disease To Please

Send me a Text Message Today's Mindful Monday Moment comes from a coaching client who asked what we do when the desire to please others becomes detrimental to our lives. Thanks for your support. Stay tuned for more exciting stuff next year. Check out my Substack https://grief2growth.substack.com Support the show πŸ§‘πŸΏβ€πŸ€β€πŸ§‘πŸ» Join Facebook Group - Get Support and Education πŸ‘› Subscribe to Grief 2 Growth Premium (bonus episodes) πŸ“° Get A Free Gift πŸ“… Book A Complimentary Discovery Call πŸ“ˆ Leave A Review Th...
I Feel Sad Today. And That's OK.
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Jan. 13, 2022

I Feel Sad Today. And That's OK.

Send me a Text Message Today's offering is on the 22nd birthday of my daughter Shayna who passed away in 2015. This is the seventh birthday without Shayna here with us. The birthdays of someone who has passed are bittersweet. Birthdays are not only a time to celebrate someone coming into our lives, we celebrate the fact they have made another trip around the sun. The birthday of someone who has passed from this realm is missing half of that celebration. Today, I feel sad. And, that's OK. Thanks ...
Why The Hell Would I Choose THIS?
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Dec. 27, 2021

Why The Hell Would I Choose THIS?

Send me a Text Message This mindful Monday moment was inspired by a comment on Penny Wittbrodt's NDE. A viewer wrote that she was tracking right along with Penny until Penny said we choose to have tragedies in our lives. This makes no sense. Why would anyone choose to be less than 100% happy all the time, if given the choice? Natalie Sudman's NDE has also prompted a lot of discussion about Natalie choosing to come back to Earth with serious injuries. There are reasons. Listen to find out why I b...
The True Cost of Free Content: What Creators and Consumers Owe Each Other
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Dec. 20, 2021

The True Cost of Free Content: What Creators and Consumers Owe Each Other

Send me a Text Message In this short episode, I share tips for content creators and content consumers. So much content is available for free. But, it takes time and effort to create it. What do content consumers owe to content creators? How can content creators make it easy for consumers to support them? In this episode, I give simple tips for both and it doesn't always involve an exchange of money. Thanks for your support. Stay tuned for more exciting stuff next year. Check out my Substack http...
Rounding Third and Headed for Home- Turning 60 Years Old
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June 4, 2021

Rounding Third and Headed for Home- Turning 60 Years Old

Send me a Text Message My reflections on turning 60. As Joe Walsh said "Life's Been Good to Me So Far" It's been a great 60 years. It's a good time to reflect on where I've been and to think about where I want to go. Thanks for your support. Stay tuned for more exciting stuff next year. Check out my Substack https://grief2growth.substack.com Support the show πŸ§‘πŸΏβ€πŸ€β€πŸ§‘πŸ» Join Facebook Group - Get Support and Education πŸ‘› Subscribe to Grief 2 Growth Premium (bonus episodes) πŸ“° Get A Free Gift πŸ“… Book A ...
CHOOSING OUR EXIT: The MIND-BLOWING Debate on Whether We Decide When We Die
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May 28, 2021

CHOOSING OUR EXIT: The MIND-BLOWING Debate on Whether We Decide When We Die

Send me a Text Message Do we get to choose when we die? If we don't choose, who does? Is it God? Is it just random? Which answer resonates with you? Which answer has evidence to support it? If you have a question you'd like me to answer, drop me a line and I'll include it in a future episode. This is a question from a listener. If you'd like to have a question answered, let me know. If you'd like to talk to me privately, you can book a session here: https://grief2growth.as.me/30-minute-complimen...
Special Episode- Upcoming Events
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May 4, 2021

Special Episode- Upcoming Events

Send me a Text Message I thought it was time to release this special episode. Sometimes I hear from people who have just discovered the podcast and don't know my backstory. After two years of doing this, it's time to review that for some of you. I always wanted to let you know about some exciting things in the works, new projects I will be launching and appearances where I hope to see you. 2021 is going to be a big year. Thanks for your support. Stay tuned for more exciting stuff next year. Chec...
2000 Days After Shayna (A.S.)
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Dec. 14, 2020

2000 Days After Shayna (A.S.)

Send me a Text Message 2,000 days 48,000 hours 5.479 years That's how long it's been since my life changed forever. June 24th, 2015 was the day that my daughter Shayna Elayne left this Earthly plane. Today is December 14th, 2020; otherwise known as 2,000 days A.S. This morning I woke up, and thought about how things have changed since June 24th, 2015. I got up, and I looked at my blog that I started amazingly the day after Shayna passed. Something told me to document this journey similar to wha...
At The Death of Every Darkness There's A Morning
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Sept. 9, 2020

At The Death of Every Darkness There's A Morning

Send me a Text Message Coronavirus, race relations, the economy, the election... everyone is on edge. Everyone's been impacted. During these trying times, there are a few things we need to remember. Thanks for your support. Stay tuned for more exciting stuff next year. Check out my Substack https://grief2growth.substack.com Support the show πŸ§‘πŸΏβ€πŸ€β€πŸ§‘πŸ» Join Facebook Group - Get Support and Education πŸ‘› Subscribe to Grief 2 Growth Premium (bonus episodes) πŸ“° Get A Free Gift πŸ“… Book A Complimentary Disco...
Is There Purpose For Your Pain? Bonus Episode
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May 18, 2020

Is There Purpose For Your Pain? Bonus Episode

Send me a Text Message This is an expanded version of a talk I gave to Sandra Champlain's Sunday Service on May 17, 2020. The question of why there are pain and suffering is an old as humankind itself. In this bonus, I take you back to my Sunday school days with a metaphysical interpretation of the Creation story. Is what we are living really God's Plan B? What if we got the lesson of that story exactly backward? For more content like this, become a Patron at https://www.patreon.com/grief2growth...
We Are All Grieving Now
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March 22, 2020

We Are All Grieving Now

Send me a Text Message Grief isn't associated only with the loss of a loved one. We grieve many things, the loss of a job, the loss of income, the loss of a relationship. Globally, we are all experiencing great, sudden, unexpected loss at the moment, even if it's the loss of something as simple as not being able to go to the grocery store and pick up what we need or to be able to go to the movies. This triggers a number of emotions in us. And, as we are cooped up with family members, we have to ...
ROUGH WATERS AHEAD: How to FACE FEAR and Conquer Panic Together!
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March 13, 2020

ROUGH WATERS AHEAD: How to FACE FEAR and Conquer Panic Together!

Send me a Text Message In the wake of the coronavirus pandemic, we are seeing a wave of fear and panic. I believe fear has a place in our life. In this episode, I'll tell you why. Panic never has a place. We will get through this together. But, we have some rough water ahead of us in the short term. Thanks for your support. Stay tuned for more exciting stuff next year. Check out my Substack https://grief2growth.substack.com Support the show πŸ§‘πŸΏβ€πŸ€β€πŸ§‘πŸ» Join Facebook Group - Get Support and Education...
A NIGHT OUT WITH KAYLA- Reflection on Les Miserables After 30 Years
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Feb. 27, 2020

A NIGHT OUT WITH KAYLA- Reflection on Les Miserables After 30 Years

Send me a Text Message Well, really a night at the theater. But, it doesn't have as much of a ring. Kayla and I went to see my all-time favorite story and favorite musical, Les Miserables. 30 plus years after my first viewing of it, my perspective has changed. Thanks for your support. Stay tuned for more exciting stuff next year. Check out my Substack https://grief2growth.substack.com Support the show πŸ§‘πŸΏβ€πŸ€β€πŸ§‘πŸ» Join Facebook Group - Get Support and Education πŸ‘› Subscribe to Grief 2 Growth Premium (...
RELEASING GUILT: Overcoming the Burden of Grief and Finding Peace!
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Feb. 7, 2020

RELEASING GUILT: Overcoming the Burden of Grief and Finding Peace!

Send me a Text Message A common problem I run into with the clients I work with is they feel guilty about the passing of a loved one. There may be circumstances where some guilt can be rationalized. (We can talk about that at another time). I'm talking about guilt over things beyond our control, guilt about things that we couldn't possibly have known or prevented if we had known. When we're going through grief, sometimes it seems that we look for reasons to feel even worse. Please do not do this...
SHAYNA'S 20th BIRTHDAY- Another Milestone
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Jan. 13, 2020

SHAYNA'S 20th BIRTHDAY- Another Milestone

Send me a Text Message Twenty years ago today I was getting ready to go to Good Samaritan Hospital in Cincinnati to welcome Shayna into our lives. Kayla was excited about being a big sister. We were ready to get this little one here. Shayna had and continues to have a huge impact on our lives. She transitioned to spirit almost five years ago but it has not slowed down how much she influences those who knew her and even many who did not. These are my reflections on this day and my on-going relati...
TIME TO LOOK BACK- TIME TO LOOK FORWARD
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Jan. 3, 2020

TIME TO LOOK BACK- TIME TO LOOK FORWARD

Send me a Text Message January 2, 2020. The month of January is named for the Greek god Janus who had two faces, one to look backward, the other to look forward. First, I want to say Congratulations! You made it another year. I know it wasn't easy. Take a bow. Second, let's set some intentions for the upcoming year. I talk about some of my challenges and opportunities. I hope they inspire you to reflect on yours and to set goals accordingly. Thanks for your support. Stay tuned for more exciting ...
SEASONS OF CHANGE: Coping with Loss During the Holidays
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Dec. 25, 2019

SEASONS OF CHANGE: Coping with Loss During the Holidays

Send me a Text Message It's been 1645 days since Shayna passed onto the next world. This is the fifth Christmas without her face lighting up our Christmas morning. It's the first Christmas in 15 years without my beloved dog Zoe. It's the first Christmas in a long time without Tywana's mother coming over. Seasons come and go. Things change. We have to find new traditions and make new memories. Merry Christmas. May you find peace and joy wherever you are. Thanks for your support. Stay tuned for mo...
HOMEOSTASIS IN CHAOS: Personal Reflections on Maintaining Balance!
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Dec. 24, 2019

HOMEOSTASIS IN CHAOS: Personal Reflections on Maintaining Balance!

Send me a Text Message Homeostasis is the tendency toward a relatively stable equilibrium between interdependent elements, especially as maintained by physiological processes. Put simply, it's when things just work. I've been experiencing some challenges around this in the last several weeks leading up to Christmas. Here are my thoughts on those challenges and what they mean. We are all just walking each other Home.- Ram Dass p.s.- this is a bonus episode. If you want more episodes like this, be...
FAN APPRECIATION DAY
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Dec. 6, 2019

FAN APPRECIATION DAY

Send me a Text Message It's just after Thanksgiving, an appropriate time to take a few minutes to give a shout out to my fans. I've been on the air for just about six months and hit some milestones with both the podcast and YouTube. I want to take those of you who listen, who support the podcast financially, and those who have shared the podcast. A special thanks to my friend Jeri at Vizzi Photo for her help with my new podcast episode cover. Thanks for your support. Stay tuned for more exciting...
How To Manage the Holiday Season and Feel Good About It- Bonus Episode
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Nov. 19, 2019

How To Manage the Holiday Season and Feel Good About It- Bonus Episode

Send me a Text Message During the holidays when we are told to feel the most festive, many of us are feeling our worst. Why is that? What can we do about it? In this bonus episode, I talk about the natural rhythms that have us feeling the way we do at this time of year. It's an issue with many of us, especially those of us who have "lost" a loved one. I was going to make this an exclusive episode for patrons. But, I think the topic is too important. If you want more episodes like this, please be...
ASK ME ANYTHING: Understanding Loved Ones' Choices in the Afterlife
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Oct. 28, 2019

ASK ME ANYTHING: Understanding Loved Ones' Choices in the Afterlife

Send me a Text Message This episode is part of the Ask Me Anything series. The question comes from a patron of the show. She asks why her daughter, if she had a choice, chose to remain on the Other Side rather than return to her. The question was prompted by the reports from some Near Death Experiencers that they were given a choice of returning or staying. These bonus episodes will eventually be moving to the Patreon platform. If you'd like to provide financial support to the show, get access t...
TRUTH ABOUT MEDIUMSHIP: Answers to Your Burning Questions!
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Sept. 30, 2019

TRUTH ABOUT MEDIUMSHIP: Answers to Your Burning Questions!

Send me a Text Message Based on my experiences with dozens of mediums both in having readings and professional relationships, I give my answers to some common questions about mediumship and mediums. What can you reasonably expect in a reading? Are mediums mindreaders? How do mediums get their information? for more information see me at: πŸ“š https://www.grief2growth.com to book a free half-hour consultation visit: ⏰ https://grief2growth.as.me/30-minute-complimentary find me on Facebook at: πŸ‘πŸΎ https...
AFTERLIFE REVELATIONS: Discussing My Book with AREI Pioneers Wendy and Victor Zammit!
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Aug. 15, 2019

AFTERLIFE REVELATIONS: Discussing My Book with AREI Pioneers Wendy and Victor Zammit!

Send me a Text Message What an honor! Wendy Zammit asked me to present my book to the AREI (Afterlife Research & Education Institute) Global Gathering. The topic of the week was to address the question "Does suffering lead to growth?" Wendy had read my book and asked me if I'd like to talk about it. In case you don't know Wendy and Victor Zammit, they are co-founders of AREI and pioneers in the afterlife studies field. The episode begins with a short presentation of my story and an overview of t...
πŸ”’ CAN’T MEDITATE? Discover the Technique That Works for You!
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July 13, 2019

πŸ”’ CAN’T MEDITATE? Discover the Technique That Works for You!

Subscriber-only episode Send me a Text Message Everyone tells you that you should meditate. But, you can't stand sitting in silence with your legs crossed. You get bored. Your mind wanders. Are you doing it right? In this fifteen-minute talk, I share my experience with meditation, how it's helped me, and how I found a way to do it that works for me. If you say you can't meditate, I say you just haven't found the way that works for you, yet. for more information see me at: πŸ“š https://www.grief2gro...
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